Okay so my girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago, and it really really upset me as i wanted to spend the rest of my life with her, also it was really sudden. The only reason she said is that its not working.
So for about a week we didn't talk at all then we started being friends again, she said she cares about me and wants me in her life, but that we won't ever get back together. And i really want to be friends with her for her and for me because were still really close and i dont want to loose her completely, but sometimes i just find it so hard, it really hurts being around her sometimes, but i dont want to give up on her completely.
Is there anything i can do to make this easier?
Most Helpful Girl
If the breakup is still fresh as I see that it still is, then you should spend a few weeks, or even a few months, without talking to or seeing your ex on a regular basis.
This phase is key in learning to separate the relationship from the friendship, and gives both you and your ex enough time to grieve the breakup.
Wishing you the best of luck.0
Most Helpful Guy
That's not an easy Avenue to travel, your feeling for her on one hand are strong and hers are not the same. It's gonna be hard because of your strong feelings and now you want to be friends and there is gonna be a time when you'll see her with other guys and it's not gonna feel pretty.0