I devolved a really strong crush on a girl,
I really thought she felt the same way, but she didn't.
She rejected me...
I just feel horrible, Am I not good enough for her? What is wrong with me? She could probably do better than me? I am just a loser?
I really loved her, with all my heart... and I am nothing to her, just another loser...
She will find love, be with another man, who is a lot better than I...
I feel so rejected what do I do?
The second problem is, If do find a girl... She will be better than both of us... I will feel horrible knowing she is better than me and another girl I am dating...
I am really down, should I ask why she rejected me? Why am I so pathetic to her?
Most Helpful Girl
You move on.
People can't help who they fall for but neither can they help who they aren't attracted to. Her rejecting you doesn't automatically mean that you're pathetic and worthless. It just means that she's not attracted to you for whatever reason and that's not something she can control. I'm pretty sure there are plenty of girls out there that you aren't attracted to. Do you view them as worthless and pathetic? Probably not. You just don't feel a spark and that's ok.
Just because you weren't a match with this girl, it doesn't mean you won't be a better match with some other girl. Don't be so hard on yourself. Not everyone is going to like you and want to be with you. That's life.2
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Most Helpful Guy
You can't change the way she thinks. She's the one that missing out on something great by not being with you. Don't place her on a pedestal she doesn't deserve to be on. Just move on. Distract yourself and don't go back. You will find someone that's ten million times better1