Well, I just got out a 4 month relationship (I know, no big deal) Anyways, this girl had me head over heels for her. I gave her so much, and I treated her right. The only thing that went wrong was my insecurities. She always told me she would never hurt me, or anything like that. Told me she wasn't like the others. So, we just kept going. Anyways, she broke up with me, and well I'm heartbroken. She wanted to be friends, but I declined, because it didn't feel right. I felt like I've given her so much power over me, because I begged her to give me another chance. She said she would think about it, but it just seems like she doesn't give two shits about anything. I went creeping on her Instagram, and she had little captions about how happy she was with life, and how she gets to make her own decisions (Graduating High school) Feels like I was a road block.. A person who claimed they loved me so much, and I trusted so much.. Is being so heartless.. We didn't leave off on bad terms or anything. I could've cussed her out, and called her every name in the book, but I wished her the best of luck, and I hoped she reached all her goals. I'm just confused.. I'm the one who is here sobbing, and drowning myself in my own sorrows. I just don't understand..
Girls, why is my ex being so heartless?
What Girls Said 3
Don't take it personal, this is just the sad after effects of breakups, painful ones of those we love dearly or care about a a lot.. Unfortunately, shit happens and we have to sometimes just pick ourselves back up and move on.
It's life, grief your time, you'll need it, but don't worry.. I promise you will be good again with time :) Time heals all wounds, if not most.. This is just the rain before the sunshine tomorrow. TOmorrow is another day.
Take it as it comes and just accept that you had a good time while it lasted, and she will not be the only person you will love and have a good time with. Everything will be alright, in due time :) <3 take care and I hope you feel better soon.
See it as a positive thing that you can feel and you know what it means to love and feel true emotions. Sadly not many can. It's a good thing :) dont worry. ;-)1
People only put on social media what they WANT you to see. Even though she's saying she's happy, she's probably miserable. If she's not miserable, she's loving the attention you're giving her. Let her be! No matter how good you were to her, if she's not into you... she's not into you. You can't force people to feel how you feel. Leave her alone. Cry about it and then move on. You're too young to be hooked on a girl who could careless about you. And whatever you're insecure about... fix it or deal with it.2
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