Okay here's the thing me and my ex really loved each other and I broke up with me several times and he would always come back to me and the last time we broke up he tried to get back with me but I avoided him and now I want him back I told him but he said no I literally poured out my heart to him.
I don't blame him but the thing is when randomly talks to me when he misses me and asks my friends about me, so I'm guessing he still cares but he said to me he can't get back with me he wants to have fun he's still young he doesn't wanna be tied down but he recently said he's looking for a wifey :S confusing.
I know he still loves me but probably hates me for what I was like but now I realized how much he means to me and want him back so can any guys tell me how to get a guy back.
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ok look, a relationship isn't supposed to be date, break up, date, break up, date...thats not how it works...youve laid the law down, youve shown him by saying you don't want to get back together that you don't want to play these games...
you make it seem like he wants you back, sit down and talk to him...really talk to him about what you are looking for ina relationship and that you won't be broken up with again and then get back together and if he's lucky enough for you to let him back in your life that if he ends up being stupid and leaving again then its for good
before you do that tho, ask yoruself WHY you want ot be back in this relationship...what caused the break up(s), why did you break up so many times and get back togehter, it seems you're putting a band aid on the problem and not stiching it up...youve got to find the underlying problem and FIX it, PERMANENTLY(stiching) not TEMPORARY(band aid)
also remember you guys will be going to college (whenever you graduate) and it may be even harder for you guys for a long distance relationship (unless you guys go local)...youre young, you shouldnt plan your life right now you have so much to learn and figure out...who knows maybe you guys date...take a break during college and explore other people and stuff and then realize hey you're it for me, no one else gives me that feeling that you do...but youve got to get out there and live kiddo..really think about this right now, THINK THINK THINK, take ur time, take notes...it'll come to you
hope this helps, GL0