Were you expecting it?
Were they in your league?
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About 28 years ago.
When I was a teenager and then a 20-something I could almost not get a date.
About age 30 applied some rational thought to my situation and came to the conclusion that whatever it was that women wanted I was the opposite of that, so I walked away.
I stopped caring about rejection and being Friend Zoned. I stopped being interested in women and I stopped approaching women.
I walked away and went monk.
Funny thing, not long after that women began to pursue me. That is still happening.