Breaking up is not rejection. You're distorting the poll results...
@Sasha07 He didn't specify what kind of rejection. Rejection is rejection. I didn't want to break up, he did. Rejection. I wanted to try and make things work again, he didn't. Rejection. I was finally over him drunk texting me and wanted him out of my life. He didn't want that. Rejection. I'm having a good day, so shut the hell up and get off my opinion. I don't have time for your stupidity.
"I was out of his league, not the other way around"I understand you just broke up with the guy but if you thought that way the chances are it wasn't an equal relationship for either of you. We tend to know when someone we're dating considers themselves better.
@RandomBritishGuy94 I'm not saying that to sound shallow. It wasn't a matter of looks or me thinking I was better than him. I'm a good person with a good heart and he treated me like crap. Even his own friends "joked" with him about wondering how he managed to snag me when I clearly deserved better. He told me they said that. I never tried to make him feel like I deserved better. He would frequently randomly bring up that he thought I deserved better and I always shot him down when he said that because I didn't like using the word "deserve" when it came to us. I defended him to all my friends the entire relationship, even after we had split and he was drunk messaging me. I never tried to make myself superior to him. He always demeaned himself to me while I always brought him up. I'm willing to admit to my faults and I know I messed up in the relationship as well, but I will not be held accountable for him feeling like he was less than me. He put that on himself.
Thanks for MH.
I was devastated and confused as hell. It had taken him about 24 hours to send this reply, so the night before I hadn't slept a wink and I had been thinking about it all day. When I got his reply I sat in my bed, in shock, for about 10 hours. I tried to sleep but couldn't. Then at about midnight the full meaning of what he said hit me and I started crying. It felt like someone was clawing at my skin, ripping out my heart and every breath. I cried for hours and tried to sleep and it was like this for hours until at about 2 am I passed out from the emotional exhaustion. I didn't sleep well, however. My dreams were all about him and his rejection of me. I woke up after only 5 hours of sleep at 7 am. No one was in the house but me. I hadn't eaten since 11 am the day before but still couldn't eat. I spent my morning crying in my bed until at about 3 pm I broke and ate. I forged myself on every fatty sugary food I could find. And then that night I went to bed early and slept better than
... had in months. I have anxiety and the whole uncertainty of the situation had been getting to me. Throughout the whole thing I had barely been sleeping so now that it was resolved (albeit not in the way I had hoped) I felt almost relieved. The next day I woke up and didn't go to church. I waited until my parents left the house and I got on my bike and rode around. I didn't want to stay in my house so I slept the night at my grandparents. I complained to my friends and just kept wondering how he could have rejected me and why. Then the next day I hung out with my friends and had some fun to get my mind off things. It still stings but I haven't cried any more than that first few days. I'm still confused but I can think about other things. And I try my best not to talk about him. But he's been making everything awkward so that's hard. I still have feelings for him. They don't just disappear. And I kind of don't want them to.
Great move. There is no use crying over spilt milk.If someone rejects you, its his loas, not yours!
Damn girl, you got your shit together like glue
@GuyWannaHelp Thank you, thank you.
You know what really sucked. She kept coming up with excuses. I came up with like 4 or 5 different date ideas, and she always came up with an excuse. And she kept texting me, all the while. It took me that long to finally figure it out. Then I said, implicitly maliciously, "I hope you find what you're looking for [and it destroys you]."
@cth96190 That's about where i'm headed at this point. I'm so done its not even funny. Shitty thing is I have such a high sex drive though. I'm tired of putting in all the effort I think i'll go monk man
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I realized I totally contradicted myself for number 2 lol but that describes exactly how I was years ago: confused Af
Heh. I've been rejected (or, more properly, shown non-interest) quite a few times because of my height. Yr not quite as tall as me, but, I'd be surprised if that hasn't happened to you at least a couple times? Mb you just didn't notice?
Why how tall is she?
@redeyemindtricks - It's their loss if they let height bother them. :*Truth be told, there aren't many men who catch my attention. I get approached quite a bit but none that I really find attractive. Dark hair, tall, tan, muscular, great smile, well dressed. Seriously, they're hard to find in my area. The ones I do find are taken or are boring with no real personality.
@archiz I'm 5'10"
"I'm in their league, they're awesome super hot guys" pfff hahahaha xD
@AleDeEurope whats soo funny thats the truth
Ok ok, I just found it funny... XD
Or more likely, those guys (and girls) just never put themselves into a position to get rejected because they have *ahem* no balls. Or maybe they just stick to online dating... less scary on the whole, I guess, and 'rejections' don't technically count. Who knows?
Oh, and definitely in my league. She told a mutual friend that she thought I was “fine as hell"
That's so weird. Something like that happened to me too.
@YourFutureEx yea, someone posted a question about having a girl/boy friend in the side, not cheating but like a reserve in case things don't work out with your current girl/boy friend. After I read it, I think that's what I was to her. Like she had a boyfriend, maybe she was thinking about breaking up with him or already did, but by the time I asked her out they got back together.
This makes sense.
were you schizophrenic back then or something?
@lovelywiz Uhhhmm no? Schizophrenics are the only ones who wear hideous, stiff, leather crocodile dresses with a cheap looking gold zippers down the front?
Haha! Nice! :D
And it didn't hurt me much (although my ego was a little bruised), I didn't expect it because it was from behind, and we're all just received players so we're in the same league ;p
@Cool4ever5 an old female friend from out of town came home for the weekend and he told me he wanted to see her... And for there to be no boundaries. Sorry for the late reply
wow im sorry and man he at least was real instead of playing both of you
@Cool4ever5 yeah I appreciate his honesty. TBH he's we're in a prime age for being single and sometimes you need to enjoy things before settling down
Sorry, knew that was coming*
Doesn't count because she couldn't have said yes.
'Yesterday morning'Good lad. Last time for me was the weekend when I went out on the pull ;)
@BelleGirl21 I didn't think it did! lol
Me too! Maybe you were the one who rejected me for someone else? Nah, you're not she is 10 years younger.
@JohnMike999 lol wasn't me bro
it hurts but you will move on