I was in an abusive relationship. He'd usually hurt me on purpose and call me names and occasionally shake me or hold me down when he was angry. I was the "only girl he ever wanted to hit". Anyways, he dumped me brutally for the 12th time over the course of our 9 month relationship. I was so angry that he had gone on dating sites while we were together, and said he was only using me, but did love me, but didn't want to be with me because I have lied to him before. Anyways, when he finally changed his mind after weeks of being rejected by girls he pursued online, he said he loved me and wanted me back. I was so angry still, and ignored his many pained, desperate texts and calls, because I was briefly dating a new guy. I realized I still loved my abusive ex and had just been angry at him, but ghosted him for nearly 3 weeks, until I dumped this new guy yesterday because it was not fair to him and I had slight PTSD from the abuse. Ex has blocked me on nearly everything. Would you ever talk to a girl who did that to you? Would you ever answer or forgive her? I feel so horrible. Has he gotten over me already? If I write him, will he answer? Help, this hurts so much :(
Most Helpful Guy
I think you have a gross misconception here, he was a dirt bag to you and you were there for him not matter what he did to you. You got fed up with his B. S and finally attained the courage to leave him in the mess he created. You were mad for all the right reasons, let him act loke a child and forget about him... he took you for granted and that's his loss. I had a similar experience where I was a real P. O. S to my beautiful woman and luckily when my eyes were opened she was still there and I tell her I love her all day long and how lucky I am to have her and that if it takes the rest of my life I will show her.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
God stay away from him.
I was in a relationship like that and you should read my MyTake.
I totally get it, but don't go there! Try and move on yourself.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE