Most Helpful Guy
He probably just want to use again so he feels better. What would be extremely sad is if you let him. You learned your lesson, this guy is no good. Do yourself a favor and block him instead and move on. An for the record since I read some of your replies. Thats how abusers are, they are always "nice" and "amazing" in the beginning, but they quickly turn that around when they feel like it, leave you with scraps so you always crave and want more, give so little compared to how they started to give, to keep you hooked. Keep you starved and desperate so you go back and fall into the trap, which yeah, dont.
Most Helpful Girl
I unblocked my ex as a sign that I have moved on from the problems we had. I don't want him to contact me and I don't contact him, but it's my way of saying, that's done, you can't hurt me with that anymore.
I don't understand why you are reaching out to him? He cheated on you, hurt you, used you... why are you wanting to speak to him? To give him a chance to do it again? Sounds to me like you are having trouble letting him go and you haven't dealt with the break up.