Most Helpful Guy
you don't need to spend more time with someone doesn't appreciate the value of the relationship or your value. you need to understand that spending more time in that relationship won't change anything... it will make things get worse.
nothing will change unless you change the way you look at yourself in that relationship in a different way.
If that person enjoy seeing you crying, do you think he will be happy to see you smile.. just for one day?
Most Helpful Girl
Let him leave. Either he's being completely honest about cheating, and you should end the relationship anyway, or he so desperately wants out of it that he's doing anything to end it, include put you through emotional torment. Be glad you don't waste another 7 years with him.
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