I had a girl who cheated on me with various other men. She was the first girl I ever felt so vulnerable and close to it was onky teo weeks but I guess I was just a in between guy. I have heard from a couple of girls that nice guys always finish last. Truthfully I am a nice guy. I wear my heart on my sleeve. And I always play the gentlemen. That is just how I was brought up. My question is how can I not be labeled one of these guys anymore. I want to be tougher harder less emotional but I don't know how. All I know is im tired of finishing last and feeling thrown aside always.