My girlfriend of 4 months broke up with me a week ago. This happened with zero warning or indication it was coming. On Friday she was crazy about me, very lovey-dovey, and on Saturday she said she was struggling. Wouldn't talk about it with me and just blocked me on Facebook and stopped responding to texts. I haven't heard from her since. Here's the thing, she's very afraid to love and be loved. She's had a rough life as far as love is concerned and once told me she'd run like hell when she started to feel love. I know she has feelings for me, I just know it. I've gotten two opposite pieces of advice on the subject. Fight for her or let her go and see if she comes back. Which method works best?
Most Helpful Girl
I would give her time. I don't agree with her just deleting you out of her life without an explanation. I think that move is very cowardly and not fair to you... if she truly has strong feelings, she will be back. If she doesn't come back, then you dodged a bullet. I'm sure she'll be back though if everything you said is true.0
Most Helpful Guy
I'd say neither one.
my ex also do the same things.
break up with me and ignore everything, calls messages...
Blocked my messages in fb, but not my profile.
My best suggestion to you is : live your life, show her that you can do it without her, and if she loves you she will come back.0