After not hearing from him for a few weeks I sent a message and he said he was going to call.
He messaged me a few times and then stopped. He never called.
I wrote him a massive message (silly) but explaining why I was upset, because I never got closure, because we went from being in love to not talking so fast and i'm not sure what happened.
This was last night, he never replied.
I really feel like I need closure to move on and so this morning I sent him a message saying "I just want closure, please". I just need it… I don't know what to do?
Most Helpful Guy
The sad part is you may never get any closure. My ex never gave me any. She decided after 14+ years, she didn't want to stay married to me. Our divorce became final after we'd been married 15+ years. At the time, I kept a mental jar full of Q's, on a fireplace mantle in my mind. I had hopes I would be able to talk to her and get some answers. Nope. Never did. Just kept asking them and getting nothing.
A few months later, I started living in the present instead of looking back at what I lost, wishing it never happened. I couldn't change what hapoened. I couldn't stop it. So I decided to just start living my life and going on with who I am and starting my future from that point on.0
Most Helpful Girl
Instead of closure we still talk, just mega less frequently than we used to.
But talking less has helped me view him as a friend and not a romantic interest, for sure.0