A LDR is a long distant relationship. And my ex said that she wants me In her life. I mean if she wnted to let me go carefully she probably would have done that. Its almost been 4 weeks since the break up. We still tlk everyday.
Ah, gotcha. And yeah, you're probably right. Could just be that she wants her cake and wants to eat it too. If you loved her, I'm sure that it won't be easy to stay friends--especially if you're trying to move on with your life.
Well I still kinda like her. Honseslty I try to move in but like I don't know. She still wants me in her life so I guess I'll wait. Maybe things will change. I mean I told her that we should be freinds, forget that we ever dated for right now and get to know each other better. She was fine with that.
It kinda hurts sometimes to talk to her as just a friend. But I mean I'm talking to her because maybe she'll want to date again. I mean... what's the point of being friends with your ex if you don't see any potential in dating them again? I did ask her if she thinks she would ever date me all she said was, "IDK". Its just crazy to see how things changed so fast because of one thing I had said.
I understand that. If she isn't even open to the idea of possibly dating in the future, then you're probably just wasting your time. Of course it hurts because you care about her. We can't just turn off those emotions even though it would be so much easier if we could. Unless she says she IS open to the possibility of dating in the future, you really just need to walk away.
How im i suppose to know if she's open to dating in the future lol
You ask her. Just like I asked the guy I was going to marry. He said if our paths crossed again and the timing was right, then maybe. But I chose to move on with my life instead of dwelling on the past because it was only causing myself much more heartache to stick around hoping and praying that he would change his mind. They never change their mind until you've moved on and are happy with someone else. Just remember that.
LOL... nope im leaving.. just found out i got played.. YAY
Sorry to hear that, but good for you. Think of it as blessing in disguise. Better things will come your way!
Eh I kinda had a freind she was
I asked if she wants space she said no lol.
It's not whether SHE wants space. It's your decision. Take the space for your own. Sounds to me like she might just end up missing you. It's not her choice man, it's your choice.
Honestly I'm... I feel like if I leave she won't come back.. like last time I said um I'll leave u alone for a while.. she was like if I want... I guess... I asked if she would be sad she said yeah... so I didn't leave
But that's exactly why the space is needed. It's not like you want to be friends, do you? I know how crappy that friendzone vibe is, especially with a girl you dated and loved. You could, but you'd need to focus on you to keep a healthy mindset. Besides, haven't you heard, absence makes the heart grow fonder. If you want her back as more than a friend, then regardless of whether you're friends with her or take your space, the only viable option is to focus on yourself. Chances are that she broke up with you due to herself and not you, since she still wants to be friends. I was married and divorced young. I've been through this
Damn. Sorry. So how long should I leave her alone for. I asked her why she broke up. All she said is it wasn't worn out out and that she would still talk to me.
She told me she just wants to be freinds...
Also. One time she didn't text me back for 5 days. And we'll I thought that was her way of telling me that she wants me to leave. I told her that and she told me nono. But really never said I miss you or something. She got grounded and her parents took her phone
Just let her go. An indefinite amount of space, without contacting her. If she hits you up, don't reply unless she genuinely appears to want to see you again and hear from you. It'll be hard, but I know from personal experience that its detrimental to be pushy or impatient. Trust me, focus on you. Get a new hobby, work out, hang out with friends, and generally get your mind off her, and if she does reinitiate contact or sees you again, she'll be pleasantly surprised and perhaps even wonder why she broke up with you in the first place. You could still do the same as friends, but frankly, you'd be giving her a level of comfort she can easily abuse.
Damn it's gonna be hard to let go.. she always texting me.. I've tried the no contact rule before and she texted me first... I don't know maybe I'll just try to give her some space.. not talk to her for a few days and see Wht happens..
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