We broke up 5weeks ago. After 3wks he broke NC to say he misses me and is miserable. We talked once or twice over the ensuing three days, but since then nothing. I thought the conversations were productive, and since he messed up, causing me to dump him, I expected him to make more of an effort to get me back. But so far nadda. When we talked he acknowledged he was the reason for our break up, but didn't ask to meet. He also seemed offended that I wasn't as depressed or upset as he seemed to be. ( I am but I refuse to let him see). I made it clear that I don't want to reconcile if things will only be the same, so maybe that is what sent him back to N.C? I am really confused, and I refuse to chase him, but I love him and I hope things will work out. Any insight is appreciated, especially from you men out there.