When he left he toke his most important things with him and said he would come back later for the rest. That is now 1 month ago. Every time he is supposed to come he cancel it on the day because he feels to bad to face me.
He acts like the world is this cruel place and everyone is against him (yes he didn't thought about the time we were happy together and got mad at him).
I can't move forward because of his shit that is still in my basement. Can't block all contact because i need to organise when he going to pick up his shit (can't sell or destroy his stuff because that's against the law here).
He is still abusing me and lying to me and i can't stop it. Even his ex, which he also cheated with, is chipping in.
Already turned to my friends but they are getting sick of the whole thing already. So i can't talk about it with them. I feel like I'm stuck in shit and I don't know how to get out of this and have nobody to turn to.
Please can someone help me?
Most Helpful Guy
ok ! it is a case of harassment. You can actually contact the police and ask for help. Next time he comes in try to record what he says. You are strong enough to not get suppressed remember that. Don't lose hope. Call the police. A case of verbal harassment is an offence. Please do that and take care
Most Helpful Girl
You should tell him that u will pack his stuff and leave it outside. Let him know about it so that he can come and pick it up and leave it as that