Not important enough to him anymore - was this a good action?

Pinkicedkks
We ended things after 10 months, not really a break up just an ending.

We met up recently after not seeing each other for a while. He clearly still had feelings/attraction to me but we kept it friendly and had an amazing time.

He has now gone back to not messaging me and I just wonder how someone can just stop messaging when they used to message everyday?
Especially when you can still have such a good time in person?

I had been acting a bit needy over the last few days, trying to force him back to talking to me. So I sent a message saying "I will always be here for you if you need a friend. Have a good time back at uni and don't be a stranger x"

He was having a bad time right then but he still replied with "Thanks _____ x"

So now i'm just going to leave it. I want to be his friend again. I want to be important again. Honestly i want to be back with him but he is enjoying the single life and has others he messages everyday instead. I hate not being needed.
Not important enough to him anymore - was this a good action?
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