(kind of long) should you marry someone when you're internally struggling a lot? Can you love someone when you barely love yourself?
What Guys Said 1
Well it is not the time to get married. You need a doctor. Your need therapy. A marriage will ruin you and him. Don't get into that. Get healed!
What Girls Said 2
It sounds like you are struggling with major depression. This isn't your fault. Most often it has more to do with a chemical imbalance and learning better coping stratagies than anything about you as a human.
Its really insightful and brave to see the issues in your relationship and question them. If you have issues loving yourself it can push relationships into something very co-depended (I have some personal experiences there).
I can't say if marriage is right for you right now, but I do know that relationships don't magically change after the wedding.
Either way I can see you are fighting an internal battle. Talking with a counselor or therapist could really help you get more clarity of your life. (There are even some new online counseling options if that's an issue).
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Get a therapist to help u out
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