Spoken to this girl for about 3 years, she def had feelings for me before but not now apparently. Its too much for me now and I want to bow out but still want there to be some sort of door open in the future. she's suggested we stopped talking two or three times before and neither time worked out after she usually contacted me again after a few days. This time its me however, and i dont want her thinking I didn't want her in my life.
Will she forget me? Do people ever realize what they lose when its gone and take a step forward? I want to regain control again over my life and how she sees me so i dont wana come across as emotional or anything but dont wana seem callous.
Most Helpful Girl
Just tell her you need to take a break from her and figure out what you want and what you can handle or tell her you need a straighten a few things out or think about a few things. I'd call it a break though... not say 'stop talking'.0
Most Helpful Guy
This is a tough one cause I do t know the whole conflict, why are you two so distant? What happen? What caused the first argument. I need to know what happen? The conflict only.0