We had an open relationship and she was fucking other guys too. I even don't know if the baby is mine or not. I didn't have any problem at the first, but now I want to make a DNA test and break up with her, if the baby is not mine. Is this a too assholish plan?
Most Helpful Girl
if you are the 'primary' man involved, and u agreed to her fucking other men, and she agreed to u fucking other women, then u BOTH should have been prepared for the chance of pregnancy to AT LEAST quadruple, depending on how many dicks and vaginas are involved here.
if ur just gonna leave because u dont know whose baby it is, then why the hell make the stupid decision of an open relationship? this is something u agreed on, and so u need to stay, no matter what. even if this baby doesn't turn out to be yours, your agreement to the open relationship makes u and her responsible for the consequences of ur decisions.2
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Most Helpful Guy
Don't fool yourself mate. You've already made up you're mind, you're leaving.
Good luck to you.
Out of curiosity, did you not have the birthcontrol/ abortion talk?