My ex hurt me very much... he gaslighted me, make me feel jealous towards other girls... always saying other girls are attractive and never saying that to me (except in the beginning of our relationship). In the beginning of our relationship he was very caring and always saying I was the most beautiful and intelligent girl he ever met.
He was an angel in the beginning of our relationship but a little bit jealous and controlling. I think I'm a pretty girl, smart, loyal and I was a loving girlfriend. All of his family liked me and they thought I was perfect for him. They thought I was saving him.. but I didn't know from what..
Then I discovered he was a drug addict, sold drugs, involved with gang members, lost all of his money. AND he started mistreating me, talking about how tanned girls are pretty (and I'm white) and never appreciating me. He is very white himself, he has a pretty face but he is very short and he had always problems with that. I believe he has self-steem problems because he was a fat guy and now he is very skinny but he still has love handles and he tries to hide it from everybody.
I was the only person he took his shirt off while having sex because I made him feel loved and accepted. He broke up with me 2 months ago and he texted me 3 weeks ago.. I replied today. But still no answer.
Most Helpful Guy
sorry for what happened.
getting out of that relationship may be painful, but that pain will guide you to the right direction. whatever you did or his family said about you in that relationship... know you're not perfect.
you gave a lot in that relationship... so thank yourself for that and stop doing the same thing twice.
you've sacrificed yourself for that person's happiness... it's time to see yourself in the mirror with a positive way.
cut him off... cuz you can't be with someone that you wish would change.1
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Most Helpful Girl
He is a Loser, here, dear, Forget him. He has More issues than Just... Gaslighted me.
This is going to be Nothing but a Full Circle Problem Pattern with him Doing and Selling drugs, being Involved with Thugs and all of the Rest that's Far from the Best. You can do better than him.
Save yourself and Your own sanity. He will Never Change, he doesn't want to. He is calling on you again to be this Enabler and he knows with all of his Flows and Flaws that you will always be there To... Save him.
Maybe with 'Still no answer,' God gave me a Chance to give You... The Right Answer.
If he does Reply, don't Press that Button. Just a 'Button' to More Bogus Bonfires.
Good luck. xx
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