Well I last said I would give him space so I will stick to my word and do that as I went into major stalker mode so first and I could see he was in a bad way. He needs to figure out what he wants from life etc and I think he can only do that on his own. I am just gutted he is telling people we broke up as he always says he never gets back with an ex. I'm really not handling this break up well. I feel rubbish constantly. Xx
Thanks for replying by the way. X
If someone doesn't want to be with you, then you have to respect that decision. You can't force them to ''love'' you. If someone loves you, they would want to be with you. Problem is, giving each other space doesn't always work for the better. You two can actually grow apart or the love can die. You can wait for him since you want him and if he doesn't come back to you then at least you tried.
Yeah I know. Well I have tried stalker mode and now on quiet mode as I don't know what else I can do. He just tries to push me away and says he doesn't know etc. It's a really rubbish situation at the moment and I have no motivation to go out drinking etc. I went out the first weekend and just ended up crying. I want to work on some other personal goals for the time being. Xx
Keep yourself busy. Its all you can do. Going out drinking isn't going to help, at all. I have tried that and it doesn't do anything. Talking to friends who respect you and won't take advantage of your situation is another option.
Yeah it just makes me feel awful drinking at the mo. All the skinny confident girls too make me feel worse like I will die single. I need to focus on getting myself happy again with fitness and beauty etc and just focus on myself. I know he will just cut me out his life as its his way of dealing with thing, whereas I'm not like that but I guess I will have to be. Xx
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