Most Helpful Guy
Trying too hard to always be there for a person will often bring out their worst: a lazy guy who takes your time for granted.
It helps often if you can kind of balance out giving with taking and also have your own independent life to lead.
Lying about pregnancy as a tactic to keep someone is a really horrible idea, though you've fortunately noticed that and learned from it.
But I really think you should start being a little more selfish. Too much selflessness often backfires in spectacular ways. Love doesn't balance towards fairness. It balances towards attraction, and sometimes going over the top to keep a person can kind of distance themselves from you emotionally.0
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Most Helpful Girl
You tell people how to treat you. Let him drive your car, sit his ass on the couch all day everyday, fuck you whenever he wants and that's how he's going to treat you from now on. Either you step up and tell him who the fuck he thinks he's dealing with or keep loving him so much...0