I've been with this boy for a year. I've been a good girlfriend let him drive my car, let him hold my phone when he didn't have one... i was good to him. But I love him so much I didn't want to loose him, i even lied about being pregnant for him.. The lie I regret that he forever throw in my face.. So one day he go get arrested and he is charge with home invasion, arm robbery, and control substance... But they let him out on house arrest and while on house arrest he broke up with me and he been on house arrest for 11 months.. He acting different he treating me like a hoe now , he more into the same friends that got him in trouble... He got trial this week I look online and found out. He so happen to ask me what's my number on Kik. I gave it to him and he never responded back and I'm trying to figure out why he wants my number. We don't talk on the phone that's for sure. I'm just thinking was me lying about being pregnant was enough for him not to want me after I done cry for this boy, go out my way for this boy, never missed court dates, gave him money, love him, help him was me lying enough for him to say fuck me
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Trying too hard to always be there for a person will often bring out their worst: a lazy guy who takes your time for granted.
It helps often if you can kind of balance out giving with taking and also have your own independent life to lead.
Lying about pregnancy as a tactic to keep someone is a really horrible idea, though you've fortunately noticed that and learned from it.
But I really think you should start being a little more selfish. Too much selflessness often backfires in spectacular ways. Love doesn't balance towards fairness. It balances towards attraction, and sometimes going over the top to keep a person can kind of distance themselves from you emotionally.0
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