it was a 3 year relationship. We were engaged. Does the no contact rule really work? He all of sudden flipped a switch and said he just wants to be alone. He told me I should move on and he said it's not fair for me to wait for him...
we broke up June 12. I've contacted him 3 times since then... We talked about the relationship all in which included him not wanting to get back together. I don't want to loose him for good. I want what we had back. I want our relationship back where it was good and he still loves me and appreciated me.
What at are some good ways to get an ex back? Or is it already hopeless? I know I can't make it work if I'm the only one who wants to make it work...
Any my tips or ideas? Do all of those "how to get your ex boyfriend rules that you search for on the internet really work?
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All I can say is, people don't realize what they've lost until it's gone. If he truly did love you, you'll most likely see him crawling back with time. If he doesn't ever come back, he most likely never loved you in the first place. Sometimes it takes years for people to come back, sometimes only a matter of weeks. In the meantime, I would try and move on and learn to appreciate being on your own and seeing how awesome of a person you really are.1
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