I haven't heard from him this week and I haven't chased as trying to stick to my word to see if he misses me etc, how else will he know?
His parents and mutual friends know. I miss him so much but he needs to work out what he wants on his own as I think he is having some commitment pressure issues. I just worry he will give up now.
Most Helpful Guy
I emailed her. She never responded. Well, then again, she wasn't really my girlfriend. She just used me.1
Most Helpful Girl
Heya, well I'm going through a similar thing right now. We argued and I told him to go to stop the constant arguing, we said we would see what happens. I messaged him and wrote a letter saying a few things and now he has not responded for a few days.
I think the best thing to do is to give him time and space. Now you feel sad and you miss why you had, just even having his presence there was a comfort you miss. It will get easier, stay busy and strong. He will eventually contact you but now he is hurting also and has gone into his man cave.
I have one fear though I am not sure you share the same? I fear he will find someone else and forget me... I try to reassure myself that I am a good girl for him and he knows it. Just the distance and ability not to talk is torturing.
Men are complex, I am sure with time he will miss what you both had. Men tend to take a little longer than us complex creatures to process things.. or they just do it in their own ways. No matter what use this as time to improve yourself and focus on you for a while. Have a cry if you need too. <32
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