Most Helpful Guy
I know of one couple where the guy had been verbally and emotionally abusing his wife. She waited till the last kid was out of the house, and had her sons help her move while her husband was at work. It was effective and lasted.
Most Helpful Girl
Even if she leaves a note and talks it through with him it's not gunna change the fact that he cheated on her and she is not okay with it. If he doesn't realize right away why she left then shorty he will cuz why else would she leave and want a divorce, I mean he knows he's doin sonthing bad. Everyone does different things in this kinda situation but I would say I wouldn't stop her from doing what she's doing