Me and this guy dated for a year and I thought he was the one.one day I called him and when he answered,he started yelling at me.i didn't know what I did and when he stopped I asked him what was wrong.he started crying and said I'm sorry and hung up.I deny know what to do.I got on MySpace and I had some new messages from girls I didn't know.and they were all about him,saying that they had slept with him while we went out.then later I called him and I didn't yell and I didn't get mad even though I was really upset.when we were on the phone,he broke up with me.and now I'm depressed.I haven't gone out with anybody since we broke up 3 months ago.I haven't talked to any guys either.I still love him even though he cheated on me.what do I do now.?how can I get him back.?
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you don't want him back. I know you think you do but you deserve better. and NOTHING is wrong with not dating anyone yet. you're obviously not overr him so why rush moving on? focus on gaining your confidence back because I'm sure that is shot. I know mine was when I got cheated on. I also started dating rright away which was a MISTAKE because I needed time to recover. I ended up destroying the relationships I got in because I expected to do the same thing that the cheater had. the fact is is that not all guys lie and cheat. there ARE good guys out there and you deserve one of them. you love the guy you thought he was. try to realize that he is not that guy and move on. even if it takes awhile you'll be better off. I prromise2