I'm not too sure how to interpret my girlfriends behavior. To start, here's some context.
My girlfriends last boyfriend before me: She allowed her unemployed stoner boyfriend to move in with her and not pay rent for the first few months..
Fast forward to present day. She is dating me, still living in the same place by herself now. I have a bacterial infection and am on some what strong meds, the side effects of both make me very tired, dizzy, and I shiver sometimes. I was at her house last night, it was cold and raining outside, and she refused to let me stay over. Because of this I had to be in the rain for over 20 minutes. If I had stayed over, there would be no risk of catching what I have because it's not contagious.
So she allows her ex to move in with her and pay no rent, but I can't stay over when I'm bad shape and it's cold and raining outside.
Am I crazy to think that she more cared about her ex's well being back then, compared to caring about my well being present day?
(We have been dating for 10 months)
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Maybe she felt burned & used by her ex & is just being more cautious now with you.
Maybe she just thinks you're being over dramatic & lazy...
Maybe she's irrationally concerned about catching your illness.
My point is, you're over analyzing this if you're going into all this...
Just relax & concentrate on getting better, it would be nice if your girl was taking care of you while you aren't feeling well.
I like a lot of guys become a big lazy baby when I'm not feeling well (not like a normal cold), so it's really nice to have a girl that cares & takes care of you when you're ill.
Give her time & see how it plays out. Also, don't compare yourself to her ex, that leads to unnecessary resentment at worst & nothing good at best... So just don't do it.0
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