he was emailing me and contacting me every other day. now its been 4 days and I haven't gotten an email or phone call from him and I can't sleep I can't think I can't do anything all I do is think of him. we broke up on bad terms and he messed up big time with me so I have been kind of giving him the cold shoulder. well I haven't been mean just short and to the point. he's been telling me he misses me and thinks of me and I don't respond to any of it . I change the subject so what do I do now? I miss him and no I haven't told him that and he won't call me he just e-mails me which p*sses me off the most.i won't call him cause I have to much pride besides he's the one who screwed up not me!what do I do now? its been 4 days and I miss him and I love him and its driving me crazy
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Here's the thing: Since he's the one who screwed up, you have more power in the situation than he does. In order to get back together, you're probably going to have to be the one to take action, not him.
He's not contacting you because, for him, getting you back is an uphill battle. He has the pressure of knowing he messed up and knowing he is at your mercy.
I know it sucks, but YOU are the one who has to swallow your pride and put your feelings on the table. If you don't, he'll never know how you feel and he'll have no choice but to move on.
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