I was friends with this guy for 11 years and he always had a thing for me. We would always go out with each other and have lots of fun over the years. In September of this year he broke up with his girlfriend because she had a guy in him house when he came home from work. I had been single for 3yrs after breaking up with my fiancé so he was there for me and I was there for him.
During this time we became closer and starting having a serious relationship in February of this year. Things were going great he texted me every morning, we talked every day it was wonderful because we were best friends. Three weeks ago he started behaving strange and going days without calling or answering his phone. When he did call it was 5 days later to tell me he was busy!
At this point I felt like he was probably back with her , then he told me that he cared so much about me and that I needed to be patient and realize that he just works a lot. This is not an reasonable answer to me when he went 5 days without calling or answering his phone. This past week things were back to going great and we saw each other a lot this week but Saturday we had plans and he called and canceled. He told me he had to work but we will go out later after 9, when he got off. So I called him at 10pm and again at 12am, he didn't answer his phone at all. Today is Tuesday and I still haven't heard form him.
How can someone that was my best friend treat me like this ? I am so angry that I want to call him and curse him out so badly! What do I do now?
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what you need is to cut him loose, and find a guy who will treat you like you deserve to be treated. clearly for whatever reason, he no longer wants you in his life.1