They've done hard drugs together for the past 10 years. She was getting married and I told him way before I was concerned about not getting an invite. He said I definitely will... I didn't but he just booked it off without telling me I wasn't invited or that he was going without me! Then made up a load of lies as to why I wasn't invited after I found out by catching a drafted text of the wedding date whilst he was on his phone. Even then he changed the subject. I asked to go to the evening do together as we were both invited to that but he refused.
They don't have a normal friendship by any means. She asked him to be her date to an event, sent him kising faces, named a star after him and said they could find it together, always says love you, called him babe at one point which she doesn't usually use. He went to her hen do, just the 2 of them, he was her maid of honour. Anyways... I said I don't want his friend in my life but he can keep her in his then I realised it wouldn't work when it comes down to big life events as I wouldn't want her there and he would. He wouldn't change his mind and didn't care that I was upset! Also he desperately wants kids and I'm unsure.
I broke it off... its 4 months later... We've bumped into each other twice and he asked to meet for coffee after the second time. I agreed... The 2nd time was less nerve wracking but I was still nervous, it felt like talking to an old friend. He's been really depressed by the looks of it and lost a lot of weight. He's been trying to meet other girls too by flirting and sexting them but he doesn't sound happy. Why does he wanna meet up do you think?