I fought so hard for us and I feel so stupid for crynig and trying so so hard to keep us together. It happened before last year where he was scared of commitment at our age, but after 3 months we got back together as he said he missed me. I left the conversation yesterday by saying "I hope you mature and find what your looking for and hopefully we'll be together again one day". He said he needs space for more than 3 months this time, and I intend to give him that.
Part of the problem was also his mum - his mum met his dad when she was 18, they got married at 22m= and then got divorced. He said he had spoken to his parents about this before he did it, and that his mum thought it was a good idea for him to grow up and become more mature, and that as we were both starting new jobs it was a good time to. The fact that he said a week before that we were perfect together and that im the 'one for him' I think freaked him out a little too... realising how young we were and saying this already to each other.
The distance has never been a problem - we are both independent and actually stayed together for a year whilst he was aborad in singapore.
Im going to give him time and space - he is going travelling for 7 weeks and then starting a new job, a nd I am startig a new job too. Am going to try and become the best person i can be and become myself in that time, and try contact after 5/6 months. Thoughts?