I talked to them about this and how it bothers me. They (ex and my friends) weren't ever "friends" before. We had plans of all meeting up once she could figure out her Visa, and we always looked forward to it but she was restricted from coming here (I would fly to her regardless if I couldn't afford it).
But I also found out that these friends aren't actually friends at all. Regardless that I've been "close", as if we were brothers, for over 10 years, they actually think quite low of me. Now I have either ended some of these friendships or guilt-antiquated with them back (which I honestly don't want to do).
Can't she get her own friends instead of leaching off the acquaintances she met with me? She claims it isn't a good idea to talk to me, that I should move on, that she is "sorry she broke my heart" after 3 years of being together, 2 of those years engaged (but couldn't beat legal matters), but she pursues friendships with people in my country rather than her own (frankly, she talks to my friends more than her own). Specifically people that were close to me.
I'm moving on, but seeing these things pop up on Facebook just seem odd. It bothers me and not too sure what to do to get past this. It's not like I can pick friends for her, but isn't it odd what she is doing? It makes me think we could rekindle what we once had, but I don't want to painfully dwell on this thought.