Most Helpful Guy
5 years is a long time. You shouldn't feel ashamed of yourself for needing time to adjust. People deal with these things in different ways. You can forgive yourself for your 'moment of weakness'. I'm sure your ex has been ruminating this in his mind for quite some time before breaking it off, so has had time to get used to the idea. If the 30 days thing was your idea that length of time seems arbitrary. Maybe it was your way of processing the thing, so you wouldn't have to accept that it is over? Is there anything else to discuss with him, really? Maybe it is time to accept it. But don't feel bad about feeling awful and going through huge emotional swings. It's a huge deal. 5 years has been a vast period of your life.
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes a person's lack of response tells you everything you need to know. Their silence let's you know exactly where you stand. It's as good as an answer as their words
Although it's painful, at least now the waiting is over, and you can start to work at moving on from him
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