Boyfriend of 5 years has completely cut me off and won't speak to me. I haven't done anything wrong he just says he lost his feelings and went weird on me. I was giving him space so trying to stick to 30 days no contact. On about day 18 and still got nothing. I just text him saying i hope you are OK and told him a shop has opened near us as it would help his dad basically. Got no reply. Now I feel worse! I gave in as everyone Said I should try and now i just feel worse. Arghhh. Well at least now I know it's definitely over.
Most Helpful Guy
5 years is a long time. You shouldn't feel ashamed of yourself for needing time to adjust. People deal with these things in different ways. You can forgive yourself for your 'moment of weakness'. I'm sure your ex has been ruminating this in his mind for quite some time before breaking it off, so has had time to get used to the idea. If the 30 days thing was your idea that length of time seems arbitrary. Maybe it was your way of processing the thing, so you wouldn't have to accept that it is over? Is there anything else to discuss with him, really? Maybe it is time to accept it. But don't feel bad about feeling awful and going through huge emotional swings. It's a huge deal. 5 years has been a vast period of your life.0
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes a person's lack of response tells you everything you need to know. Their silence let's you know exactly where you stand. It's as good as an answer as their words
Although it's painful, at least now the waiting is over, and you can start to work at moving on from him1
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