I'm in a 10 year relationship with a guy and its never been better. Having said that we've had our ups and downs. I've cheated on him in the past and never told.
I did it safely and got checked at the ST clinic just to be doubly sure that I hadn't laid him open to any nasties. At the time I felt awful knowing that I had cheated now its almost like it happened to someone else.
But is honesty the best policy - I can't see any point in rocking the boat over something that happened 3 years ago and meant absolutely nothing anyway.
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honestly you should have told him right off the bat. but it is too late now. its wrong what you did. but if you feel that this is going to bother you then you probably should say something. I've always hated cheaters. once a cheater always a cheater. but everyone is different. what you should do depends how the well being of the relationship and if it will mentally f*** with you in the future. make sure your guilty conscience won't kick in about it. then it will just become a lot worse for both you. good luck. and think about what you are doing. you might get away with it, but it could come back and bite you in the ass. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just very straight forward.2