Should I text him first?

My ex and I have been in contact for over a year now, but he comes and goes from my life. He recently came back after not talking to me for almost a month. He calls me every week and texts me almost everyday to ask how my days going.

About a a week ago he asked why I never text him first. He said if you love someone you'd check up on them. I told him I would text first but I don't want to bother him.

he works night shift 4 days a week then when he's off he's resting, so I don't want to bother him. And in the past I would text him and he'd ignore me, so it's made me afraid to. And now I haven't heard from him in a couple days.


Most Helpful Girl

  • I would text him... u don't have to... but of u want to maintain a relationship I would... he probably feels u don't care...

    • I texted him today to tell him about a new show, and he never responded 😞

    • Thanks for MHGirl... good luck!!! Just wait it out :)

Recommended Questions

Have an opinion?

What Guys Said 1

  • so you still love him? thought he was your ex? why do you give a "fux"?


What Girls Said 0

The only opinion from girls was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion!

Recommended myTakes