Hi. Me and my ex are constantly fighting for little things, and the last time he broke up with me, he wanted do go back after a month. We did get back together, but it didn't last because we had an argument and he broke up with me again. He's been sick in the stomach for some time and the reason he breaks-up is because he feels more pain and feels ill when we fight. Now, i want him back and we go out last night. But he said that wants to take things slow, and wants me "to be free". According to him is because of his health... Its possible that he doesn't love me anymore and is interested in someone else?
What should i do? Thanks!
what is your opinion, girls and guys?
Most Helpful Guy
I believe that it's a lack of proper communication. You are both not meeting each others needs. Its a lack of understanding how men and women work I believe. Men are logical and problem solvers. They don't consider the emotional aspects of what they say or how they say it. If there's a problem they simply want to fix it.
Women on the other hand are emotion based. They consider what they say and how they say it so as not to hurt the other persons feelings. They just want to be felt and understood. Not have their problems fixed.
Knowing how the other person is wired will help you. Sit him down and try to explain all this to him. I hope this helps.0
Most Helpful Girl
You've broken up twice because you fight and when you fight it aggravates his health problems? I mean really, i would fully expect him to want to go slow if he got back together with you at all. Not that you are doing anything bad but he has to be associating his health difficulties with your presence, right? Seems smart and reasonable that he wants to go slow!1