Mostly over it... (I still have some feelings)
The problem is I get anxiety now at work when she is around. I am scared of talking to her, bumping into her, seeing her...
To help myself get over it, I kind of went no contact... Maybe I'm scared I will get hurt again if I talk to her?
How can I get rid of this anxiety?
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I've never been a fan of dating or trying to date coworkers for that exact reason. Perhaps the best thing you can do now is just be polite and say hello when you're in a social setting (by the coffee machine or whatever). How do you treat other polite, nice people at work that you're not interested in? Treat her like one of those.