I didn't know they were dating until the last time I saw him, so i texted her and told her what had been happening. is this bad?
Do you think it was wrong of me to tell the girl that the guy I was hooking up with was cheating on her?
What Guys Said 4
You may think you were doing her a favor. However, you just brought something painful and ugly into her life and she will always remember it was you that told her. I have learned to stay out of people's personal lives for two reasons. first, sooner or later they will find out. Second, it really is none of my business.
You could lose a friend from thinking you are helping them.0
no i don't think it's wrong0
No, you did the right thing. She deserved to know she's with a cheating scumbag.1
Nah thats girl code. Or at least if the situation was reversed and my girlfriend hooked up with someone, I'd rather the dude tell me straight up. What you did was okay, i think its definitely worse if lets say after you found out, you kept hooking up with the guy. So i'd say you did the right thing.1
What Girls Said 4
No its not bad , the poor girl deserves to know what her boyfriend was doing behind her back , and you can't be put to blame because you've had no knowledge that he had a girlfriend while you were hooking up0
I'd much rather know if my boyfriend was cheating on me, so I think you did the right thing. It'll hurt her for awhile, but she'll be able to move on and find someone who will actually care for her.0
I had a girl tell me that the guy I was dating was texting her really flirty stuff and she showed me the message. Now we are best friends. In a weird way it gave us something to bond over lol. Just do what you feel is right.0
NO GIRL YOU GO TELL HER i applaud you1