I asked her out, and she politely said no.
I really don't know why why she said no,
Am I ugly, not good enough for her?
Is it just because she doesn't want to date a coworker?
I feel like I am really not good enough for her and it is destroying me because I don't now...
Should I ask her?
Most Helpful Girl
She politely said no. If you respect her, accept the answer and move on.
If you care more about yourself than you do this girl, then go ahead and ask her for more information. Just know that in asking her for the reason she rejected you, even if she tells you, even if it is something you can change about yourself - you'll guarantee that she will never go out with you. She would never forget the discomfort and embarrassment you bring to her by your selfish act of confrontation. Any hope for a second chance later down the road would be dead and buried.