Most Helpful Guy
Well.. I don't have an advise. I can just offer some sort of relief to think there's people on the same situation.
Broke up with girlfriend, no contact for a month. I know she won't start contact. I si ill have feeling for her, even when she did wveyrhing to upset me and make mad. Well.. Here we are. One month after and crazy about contacting her. You're not alone.
Most Helpful Girl
No, you should not contact an ex who left you. I'm sorry girl but HE LEFT YOU. He stepped out of your life and that's something you really need to come to terms with so that you can move forward with life and enjoy all the other things and people your life has to offer you. No offense, but it also may look a bit pathetic if you essentially go crawling back to him or seeking him. You never want to make yourself look like an abandoned puppy lingering around on a man's doorstep. :/ It's bad for your dignity, self-esteem, and can make things eternally awkward if he opens the door briefly then closes it moments later.
NC is meant to be a tool to truly help you move on. Are you using it as that or more so as a means to make him miss you?