He posted the song " I'll find another you" by John Mayer. What does this mean?
Also I was going to send him this message after going NC for long time " upon reflection and space from you I realize you never deserved me. You never put your pride away to fight for me and that says enough. I put up with your mind games for years like a fool because I loved you. Just realize the reason things didn’t work out is because of you. Enjoy finding someone else to put up with your sh*tty ways, but you will never be able to replace me or find anyone as wonderful as me"
but then maybe I shouldn't bother?
If you were to text him what would you say?
Most Helpful Guy
"Have fun sleeping around and catching some STDs or knocking up somebody"
But seriously? Forget about ever contacting him, drop and stop all possible contact with him, change numbers, social media accounts, any and all possible ways for him to ever reach you. That way it would make the healing process more easier. Throw away any gifts or things he had given to your or just give them away or sell 'em, get rid of all the photos and pictures you have of him, as well as the pictures where you and him were together. The less you remember the more easier it will be to heal as over time you won't really care about it anymore. But as long as you have all those memories and things that brings back those memories about him it would make it difficult for you to completely let him go and put it all behind you in the past. Focus on the present on how you want to live your life and what you want to do with it and not dwell on the unhappy past you've had with him.
Most Helpful Girl
It depends on where he posted the song. If it was just a general post not directed towards you or anyone, then it probably didn't mean anything. If he posted it to you (i. e. on your facebook wall or something along that line), then he's probably saying that he'll find someone who'll replace you.
Don't text him since you guys have already been nc.