My girlfriend for 2.5 years is starting to play games. She' use to love me so much. She'd beg & cry on her knees if I ever suggested breaking up, that's how much she cared. I use to never treat her like I should've in the first year or 2 but she was crazy in love with me. but now I treat her so good and bring her out all the time and give her love & attention. Now during the past few months she's been playing games. She'd pick stupid fights & break up for me for liking a picture for example. When we were single she was liking one of her ex boyfriends picture (they dated for like a week, a couple years back) and I found out she sent him dirty pictures. We fixed things up and today I caught her texting him an I asked to see and she hid it from me. I told her we can fix things out if she was truthful or I can drop her off and be done completely. I was yelling at her to still show me her phone but she kept lying saying it was one of her girlfriends. That's when I called her names and she decided to go home. Funny thing is that when she broke up with me weeks ago, I'd do the no contact rule and on the 2nd day she would blow up my phone telling me how she's missing me so much and saying stuff like "really going to throw away 3 years?" What should I do? She claims she still cares and she always agrees to hangout but this stuff happens.
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I put an opinion on this previously but removed, guess you don't like to hear anything that isn't covered in sugar and coated to suit your delicate feelings.
So here is the answer you want to hear (although it's a lie) .
She'll come back she LOVES YOU... (gagging) and she isn't sleeping with other guys only dreams of you each and every moment. You're the reason she breathes and lives (choking on my words - ewww bro).
Ok now that you're all pumped up and feeling good enjoy that if she does come back and you keep that hope that eventually you will realize my REAL post could have saved you manipulation and becoming more shatter that you WILL experience if you believe she is in love with you as much as you love her.
But welcome to fantasy land where you can delete honest advice.
So lie on... she loves you still, forever and always ok (preparing your grave for the inevitable doom). Good luck!1