my ex and I broke up about 3 weeks ago. We were together 3 years
I've been doing everything everyone's telling me
new look, being confident, going out with friends, making him a little jealous..
and it was working. he was IMing me, asking me questions, making sure I wasn't moving on even saying he loved me to me and mutual friends
but last week he skipped out on our reunion date..he went out with someone else
and I'm my rage I deleted him from MySpace and we haven't spoken in a week.
he told a mutual friend last night he still loved me, and I saw proof in a Facebook msg when a mutual guy friend asked him if he could ask me out, he said he'd kill him and kick his a** because he still loves me.
so the feelings still there..but how can I get him to initiate contact with me? or get back together? its been way too long apart..its my bday in a week. I wanted to spend it with him...
im assuming he still wants to be together, but I know he's also flirting on MySpace because I saw some comments, but he told me (last we spoke) he hasn't hooked up and isn't ready to. We broke up because I was controlling and he felt he needed space..also, I cheated on him with a girl..which at first he didn't care but once we started fighting a lot he brought it up and said it hurt him.
I'm willing to do anything
thanks any advice is appreciated.
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If you want to get back with him in time for you bday you will have to make the first move, seems to be trying to do the same make you jealous, perhaps hooking up with someone else. If you cheat on a guy he will then use it as a free card to hook up with someone else, even things out so to speak, then come back to you when he is ready. Seems he broke up with you, someone has to make the first move or you just end up where you are, and you still have to deal with all the problems in the relationship.0