Most Helpful Girl
Breakup. You can't avoid hurting someone's feelings. That's life, we all have to deal with that shit. The kindest thing to do is stop wasting both your times and just move on already. The sooner you end it the sooner she can start the healing process. Or are you just going to stick around and marry this woman because you are too afraid of hurting her/going out and pursing the life you want?
Most Helpful Guy
Well you can do a smart thing and tell ur girl that you can't deal with the long distance, and the fact that your in Uni without having the liberty of seeing girls. You don't necessarily have to tell her your seeing someone else cuz she might be heartbroken, but just say you want some liberty or freedom, and the distance is not working. Good luck man!