So my ex and I broke up about a month and a half ago. I've done the whole NC thing, and have had time to decide if I truly want to try to get her back. We broke up because things moved to fast and she freaked out.(she was the one that moved fast). One of her Good friend's husband and I became good friends, and I value his opinion and trust his advice. I wanted to ask you girls if it would be good, or counterproductive to get his opinion on what I should try to do in order to reconnect with her? I obviously don't want it to get back to her, but I know he supports us getting back together. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!