I was the cause of our breakup, is it possible that we'd get together?
What Guys Said 2
I've always liked the saying. (A relic cigarette never tastes the same, and that's all I'll preach about rekindling an old flame)0
Nope this is going nowhere0
What Girls Said 1
I think you have to take some time to yourself and really think and decide what it is exactly you want.
Sure you two may get along great over the phone, and through online messaging, but when you get to meet up in person, things could be different. Personal interactions aren't always the same as online ones. However, it sounds like you are insecure about more than the relationship. Maybe this break is a good thing for you for now, as it could help you figure out what you really want.
from the sounds of it, he's a reasonable, understanding guy who cares about you. But again, you never know what someone is really like until you get to know them in person.
Maybe try being friends, or just let things cool between you two for a while. Give it a week or two and think heavily. Do you want him as your bf? Do you want to be in a relationship right now? What's bothering you and making you feel those insecurities? Are you prepared to keep that effort and give effort to your school / social life/ work too?
I'm sure he will understand, and listen to you about this. If you're really bothered try talking with him about why you are so insecure. He has reassured you in the past, your insecurities may be something within yourself that you need to solve before you can fully open yourself to be committed to this individual.
Best of luck!1
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