Most Helpful Girl
I think you've done a lot considering the circumstances. And even though every child needs both of their parents, he sounds like he doesn't care enough because he chooses to continue drinking and doing drugs. The paranoid part of me would worry that he's trying to get you to have unsupervised visits so he could harm one or both of you. I was taught that a real parent does whatever they can to be with or see their child, it doesn't seem like he's trying.