We've been together 4 years. We didn't have any problems, nor did we have any recent fights. He has shown me nothing but love the whole time and everyday told me he loved me, on his own. He told me I was the best thing that's ever happened to him. He always wanted me to cuddle to him at night. We were planning a trip in a week. He even told me to email his dad and tell him we were going to meet him. Then he up and left me yesterday, with no warning.
Why did he show me all this love and say all those things if he was going to leave?
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A story to illustrate this would be a guy being in a great relationship with a woman. Everything was great until he spotted she left bills unpaid despite having plenty of money, not turning up to her job despite enjoying it and little things like that building up.
Even though the guy loved her to pieces, he accepted she was a liability. She was so untogether he couldn't imagine her raising their children well. He finished the relationship because he wanted children and the woman to be a good mother.
Perhaps your partner spotted something which may have been a fatal flaw you're not aware of and left you because you didn't fit into his future plans.0