Most Helpful Guy
i think as long as he's taking care of what he needs to without the courts i wouldn't bother going through the courts BUT if he starts slacking then you should definitely do what you need to do
the only real reason to get courts involved in child support issues is when one parent is shirking their responsibilities
Most Helpful Girl
Well courts objectively set things based on the evidence. They also clearly outline your rights as a parent, custody, and visitation. This makes things simpler. Also he caused the child so he should help care for it. Just as his new girlfriends baby's father should be taking care of that child.