Most Helpful Guy
Heal and move on and never look or go back
Most Helpful Girl
It's really cowardly to do something that big over text.
I'm glad you guys finally talked in person, but his hot and cold attitude is kind of annoying, and giving you mixed signals. He says he doesn't want to lose you... but he's still breaking up with you and is already talking to another girl?
I think he might want you in his life, but not as a romantic partner. Also, yes he might still have feelings and love for you, but at the same time he doesn't want to be together anymore, so I'm not sure how much that matters.
Sorry you're going through this, but if this is really what he wants, then I think it would be best if you cut contact with him for a while and work on moving on.