My boyfriend and I are kind of rocky right now and we don't know where we are in our realationship. Lately this past July he's stopped texting and he's always busy. I'm used to being second in someone's life and I told him that but he said we should just break up cause he doesn't like it. I say he's pushing me away but he doesn't see it even though it's happening. How do I get him to notice me more and stay with me. Also he loves to go to raves and I don't party anymore how do I get him to stop going every weekend.